OLDER man;; PLEASE HELP ME?

Forget about all that. No one needs to know if you are sleeping with him, and make sure your always protected so the law doesnt get involved. Stupid laws sometimes ruin good loves. You understand that he's special, and I know your dad is just looking out for you, but if you can trust him, and know he feels the same way, ride the wave. In a few years all of that wont matter anymore. You'll be 20, he'll be 26/7, then you'll be 50, he'll be 57. Doesnt sound that shady anymore, now does it? If you feel this it and it's worth fighting for go ahead. Just lay low and wait until you turn 18 to come out and tell everyone. And again, dont get pregnant, go if you have to.